Are you craving a little more passion in your sex life? Maybe you’re interested in trying a new kink or exploring new positions with your partner.
The best way to ignite feelings of sexual passion is through the foreplay before you get into bed with your partner. Here are some tips to help you have passionate sex: 1. Go slow.
1. Go slow
Passionate sex is not about rushing to get your orgasm and then quickly having it over and done with. Instead, it’s about taking your time and enjoying the experience as much as you can. Slowing things down can also make the pleasure last longer because there’s more pent-up arousal, which will result in more orgasms and a more intense overall experience.
Going slower can also be more intimate, which is another great way to ignite that passionate flame. It gives you the opportunity to talk more with your partner about things like foreplay, fantasies, and even boundaries. Having this open line of communication can help you build a stronger relationship and increase intimacy, which is a great recipe for passionate sex.
Sexpert Kate Taylor recently published a list of thirty tips to keep the spark alive in your relationship during Sextember (or anytime you want some passion). Although lists like these can sometimes fall into super cheesy territory, this one actually has a lot of good advice and suggestions.
2. Keep it intimate
When you have passionate sex, it’s important to keep in mind that intimacy is the key. It helps to create the deep connection that leads to passion and lust inside and outside of the bedroom.
Keeping it intimate means not only being physically close but also emotionally open. It’s important to communicate your feelings about sex and the relationship. It can be uncomfortable at first, but it will make a big difference in your sexual chemistry and passion for your partner.
It’s also a good idea to talk about your kinks and fantasies with your partner. It will give them a better idea of what to expect in the bedroom and how to please you. It can be fun to experiment with different sex toys as well. This will keep things exciting and adventurous, as long as it is done with consent. It could include a vibrator, dildos, or even handcuffs.
3. Be present
Getting caught up in your thoughts, worrying about how you’re doing in bed or how you’re going to get your partner orgasm can kill the mood. When you find your mind wandering, use what sex therapists call “sensate focus” to return your attention to your body. Focus on your breath and your physical sensations — what does it feel like when you’re moaning, for example?
If you’re feeling stuck in a sex rut, try mixing it up. Adding sex toys to the mix can add an exciting new dimension to your sexual pleasure and your connection with your partner. From vibrators to dildos, there’s no limit to the ways you can spice up your love life. But, remember to communicate in the bedroom and always prioritize your partner’s satisfaction over your own. This is key to having passionate sex.
4. Keep it kinky
When couples get bored of the same sexy routine, they can fall into sexual ruts. This can make it hard to connect to each other emotionally and create a sense of intimacy.
One way to spice up your bedroom fun is to try out kinky ways to pleasure each other. For example, using a vibrator or blindfolds can add an extra element of excitement. Alternatively, you could try different sex positions to find out which ones give the most pleasure. Or, you could read erotic texts together, watch pornographic movies or even try out oral sex to get the blood flowing.
It’s important to show your partner that you want them. This can be done in subtle ways, such as throwing them a casual compliment or flirting with them during the day. It’s also a good idea to take turns in the bedroom so that both of you have a chance to feel fulfilled.
5. Keep it new
If you’re married, you can get stuck in a routine with your partner that becomes boring. That’s why it’s important to keep your sex exciting by trying new things.
You might be surprised to learn that the key to passionate sex actually starts before you even get under the sheets. If you want to ignite passion in the bedroom, begin by talking to your partner about foreplay, fantasies, and pleasure spots. This will help you and your partner to have an open dialogue about what each of you likes or doesn’t.
You can also experiment with different sex positions or toys to keep things fresh. Just remember that sex doesn’t have to be aggressive or crazy, just something that makes you both feel pleasure and excitement. A little bit of kinky goes a long way in the bedroom! So get out there and start exploring!
6. Keep it exciting
It’s easy to fall into a routine with your partner in the bedroom and routine sex can quickly become boring. Try experimenting with new positions that will give both of you pleasure. Experimenting with different kinky toys is another way to keep things exciting in the bedroom. A simple bullet vibrator can be powerful or try a buzzing ring you can wear during sex.
Both men and women need to feel desired. Make sure your partner knows how much you want them by casually throwing compliments their way, flirting with them outside of the bedroom and making them feel irresistible to them.
Keeping passion alive in long-term relationships isn’t always easy, but it’s definitely possible. If you and your partner can find the right balance of slow sex, intimacy, touch and being present, then the passion should naturally follow. You can also try dressing in sexy costumes or role-playing to get the juices flowing.